Everyone has someone to rely on under certain circumstances. It is normal to depend on a person but the problem starts if it surpasses its limits. Have you ever thought if you could be able to live your life on your own when the person you depend on left you someday?
Not everyone can come with us until the very end. There may be a time when you are left all alone, and you should be ready to manage the responsibilities of your own life. If you are not capable enough to take care of your own life, when such a situation develops, it will affect your mental stability crucially. At such times, you may even lose your self-confidence and feel inferior to others.
When we start to depend on a person, we trust him or her unconditionally. Hence why can’t we have that trust on ourselves? Learn to be strong. Give a try to be independent enough rather than rely on others. When you start the process, you might find yourself making continuous mistakes. Many things may even go wrong. You may even end up saying yourself that you are good for nothing. Remember not everyone is perfect in everything. It is natural to make mistakes. Therefore, never lose confidence and the trust you have for yourself.
Accept and learn from your mistakes. Life is full of ups and downs. Let yourself out from the comfort zone you have been dwelling in so far. Dependence may even become a habit. If you notice, you will find that your dependence will make people around you to worry about you. Instead of evading your responsibilities, fulfil it on your own.
Are you going to regret being a dependent person all your life? Step out from the wall you have created around yourself and build up the courage to try to use the opportunities from now on. You will one day make people proud of you, though earlier they worried about you. It is not too late to accept and move forward. There may be a wonderful future waiting for you for which you have to work hard now by yourself.
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