No mercy killing, this

The plight of the elderly in India is pathetic. We need a policy shift that is more tuned to the needs of the aged. They are not a burden, and caring for them is a social obligation…

Updated - December 15, 2016 04:26 am IST

Published - March 20, 2010 07:45 pm IST

Wanted no more? Photo: K.K. Mustafah

Wanted no more? Photo: K.K. Mustafah

Mercy killing of terminally-ill elderly persons is a crime in India. In law, it amounts to murder.

But what if there is a social practice by which ill elderly people are put to sleep, with the knowledge of all the family members? Shocking though it may seem, Virudhunagar and other southern districts in Tamil Nadu seem to have had a long-established practice called thalaikoothalby which elderly persons, often bed-ridden and terminally-ill, are given a ceremonial oil bath followed by tender coconut water in the belief that it would induce pneumonia, leading to eventual death. It is not unknown that at times some drugs are also added to hasten death!

One such incident was reported recently in Virudhunagar. An 80-year-old man escaped from his house and fled to the house of a relative alleging that his children were planning a thalaikoothalfunction to kill him as they wanted to grab his property!

How should society, State and the law deal with such incidents, especially when the entire family is involved? How do you prevent avaricious family members killing the elderly to grab property in the name of the social practice? Will criminalising these acts help prevent it? Or will it make it worse, driving the practice underground?

Thalaikoothalis condemned as reflecting the callousness and indifference of society. It is said to mirror the selfishness of younger generations waiting to grab property and reveals ungratefulness to the elderly.

All societies, at some time or the other, have to contend with the issue of dealing with terminal illness entailing great suffering with no hope of improvement. The problem is particularly acute in populations with a growing elderly population who live longer lives than their predecessors.

Scarce resources

In rapidly urbanising India, families today are faced with the problem of space crunch. Often living in cramped houses, there is little or no space for a bed-ridden old person. Finances are stretched; healthcare is expensive. Where both husband and wife work, full-time healthcare workers have to be hired to take care of ill persons, putting pressure on space as also finances. A further complication is if the ill person is also mentally affected. Families face a cruel dilemma — do you spend scarce resources on the young, investing for their future or do you spend on health needs of the elderly at home?

The relief of suffering through palliative care is now seen as a basic human right. But few across the globe have access to it. The prohibitive cost of private palliative care is such that only the rich and wealthy can access such facilities. In an economic context where commoditisation, commercialisation and corporatisation are the dominant mantras of State economic policy, and the State itself is consciously withdrawing from provision of basic healthcare and welfare services, there is little hope for vulnerable sections like the elderly unless there is a paradigm shift in the government's health, economic and welfare policies.

For the last three decades, states like Tamil Nadu have successfully followed a development policy based on reduced fertility and improving the ‘quality' of the youngest generation. It has concentrated its efforts at reducing infant and maternal mortality and increasing educational attainment. Its success can be seen in reduced family size, increased longevity, a significant decline in child labour and increasing educational attainments. All this is positive and to be welcomed.


There is, however, a downside to the success story. Increased longevity means there are more elderly people than before. The demographics of elderly are staggering. In 2006, the number and proportion of aged population in India was 83.5 million (7.5 per cent of the population). This is expected to rise to 94.8 million (8.3 per cent) by 2011, cross the 100 million mark by 2016 (population 118 million or 9.3 per cent) and rise to 143.7 million people by 2021 (or 10.7 per cent).

A different dimension emerges when we consider the fact that nearly 93 per cent of the entire working population in India is engaged in the informal sector. With no retirement pension facilities, most of these people have no social security coverage and will have to work well beyond what might be considered ‘ retirement' age. The National Old Age Policy estimates that a third of all elderly fall ‘below the poverty line' and the next 1/3rd are only slightly better; effectively 2/3rd of all elderly are termed to constitute economically “fragile”! Unfortunately, identification of BPL people is so flawed that it excludes more than including the needy.

The plight of elderly in middle-class homes is no different with inter-generational conflicts over care, space, time and finances. Those lucky to get retirement benefits have at least a bargaining chip with the family. Those unlucky not to have this protection have to suffer the vagaries of stressed out families

It is therefore a safe bet that millions of families are facing, or are likely to face, the challenge of inter-generational demands on scarce family resources like space, time and finances. In a no-win competition between generations, the old are fated to lose and suffer discrimination, alienation, neglect and marginalisation.

The large number of old age destitutes and the rising number of old age homes is testimony to the growing acuteness of the problem. But who is bothered?

While India's population is rapidly ageing (WHO estimates life expectancy of 70+ by 2025), we unfortunately have little information about the elderly beyond gross numbers. The National Family Health Survey has cut-off ages of 49 for women and 54 for men and therefore we have little information about the health status of the elderly. The Census defines working population as those aged 15-59. Welfare policies limit State benefits to those who are 65 years and above. The reality is that millions of the 60+ population continue to be self-employed, if only to survive, but yet are not covered by census of other official data.

The Indira Gandhi National Old Age Pension Scheme (NOAPS) provides up to a maximum amount of Rs. 400/- per month but only covers the BPL population. Apart from the rhetoric of providing universal pension, in reality, across most states in India, NOAPS does not reach the huge number of aged destitute and poor. Artificial capping of OAP allocations has meant that only a small proportion of the aged are reached every year. The money provided (up to Rs.400 pr month, depending on the state) is by no means sufficient considering the cost of medical expenses. Consequently, pensioners remain either dependent on their children or must continue to work. Tragically those who are excluded are often the most unwell, frailest and poorest amongst the old because they cannot jump the financial and physical hurdles that are required to access the pension.

Shift in perspective

What is required is a perspective shift from viewing the elderly as a burden to acknowledging their economic and social contribution to society. Care of the aged is a social obligation arising from the fundamental rights of the elderly to life and living; it is not an act of generosity of the State or welfare agencies. If society and the State refuse to acknowledge the inadequacy of current policy perspective and understanding and continues to under-perform in the provision of support to families and elders (as workers, pensioners and patients), then it is not the children who are callous and indifferent, but society and the State itself.

More instances of thalaikoothalare bound to occur in the future unless citizens collectively initiate a review of India's policies and progress as a nation. Does development have to be at the cost of the elderly? Taking a step back to review how older people are imagined and catered to in policy and how well this fits their needs and their contributions to the economy and society is the only humane way to repay debts to the older generation on whose backs we have been carried thus far.

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