It is such a relief finally to know why and where rapes take place in this sanaatan land.
They happen because of “western” influence, and they happen in “India”, not in “Bharat.”
To clarify: “India” is wherever rapes take place; “Bharat” is where they do not. By the way, not rape but “balatkar” takes place in Bharat; and that is not the same thing, is it?
So, for starters, you might ask the question: do the thousands of dalit women, agricultural workers, adivasi women out to gather firewood or water, women out on the call of nature in the open, women who dare to defy custom in the hinterlands, girls who dare go to village schools trudging menacing distances, women who inhabit slums outside city limits who are regularly subjected to rape live in India or in Bharat? And all without any of the redress that may occasionally be available to women who are raped in “India,” since in “Bharat” there is hardly ever a police thana to go to, or a social organization to seek shelter with, or a hospital or health worker who might record and report those rapes. And of course no “western” influence there. Only expanding “development” full of predatory robber barons patronized by chief executives replete with good Bharatiya values.
Then there is the claim that women have traditionally been so honoured and safe in Bharat. Consider how Shurpnakha in the Ramayana was honoured by having her nose cut off for expressing an amorous preference; how Dhrupadi in the Mahabharata was likewise honoured by first being staked in gambling by an adarsh husband, and then gleefully disrobed by the male cabal, all friendly family men, to whom she was lost in dice; or how women in a predominant “Bharat” then were honoured by being required to climb the dead husband’s pyre upon his death; or how they were made safe by being routinely married off as less than nubile children; or being propitiated as “grah lakhshmis” who nonetheless had the privilege of eating last and eating little; or, more recently, by being killed off in the womb to be utterly and ab initio safe from the outside world. And, altogether, by being held to the so ennobling laws of Manu. All during times when one never as much heard of the “western” world, which, one must note, was pretty much as enlightened with respect to women as the Bharat barely sketched above.
Now this wretched “western” world: how the sanaatan Bharatiya rightwing adores its goods and services, its technologies, its finances, its industry, its impulse to dominance, its macho militarism, its market economies and all the chicaneries and corruptions that go with it, but how it abhors its concomitant histories of democracy, freedom, equality. Ergo, as the Hindu rightwing Bible would have it, give us your capitalism, give us the smart phones, give us the unconscionably unethical advertising industry, but leave us our Bharatiya culture at the centre of which is the shackled nari captive to a plethora of lakhshman rekhas. Let her continue to be the bulwark of family and patriarchy, while Bharatiya men go out to conquer the world.
The plain fact is that, suddenly, India’s prehistoric myth-makers no longer have a leg to stand upon. For too long have they been speaking to cross purposes from each side of a duplicitous mouth. They say they support women’s reservation in parliament and legislatures, not to speak of panchayats and gram sabhas, to wit, their role as social and governmental decision-makers, they adulate foreign women of Indian origins who do heroic deeds as citizens of other countries (ah a Kalpana Chawla or a Sunita Williams), never questioning what they wear or who they go with, but they do not wish any woman at home to be her own person in what she wears, where she goes and at what time of day or night, who she teams up with, what opinion she holds or expresses, or how she might dare challenge the stranglehold of family, custom, maryada, or how she might hold the patriarchal state responsible for ensuring her free movement, her free choice of personal, social, and emotional mobility. They presumably expect even very successful women in offices, corporations, legislatures, educational institutions always to keep in mind that they remain in line with what their fathers, husbands, or brothers would think best for them. And when the fathers, husbands, brothers, or sundry other kin commit rape upon them, maryada enjoins that they do not make such things public. And just to recall: 92% or so rapes in this land of ethics and honour are perpetrated within family circles. Not to speak of the millions of abjectly illiterate and mired women who nonetheless are pressed into productive services in field, factory, shopline at much less the wages at which men might be hired. Those are unmentionable fair game for whatever male happens to take fancy.
Consider this: Hinduism is the only organized faith worldwide that has a goddess of wealth (Lakshmi) who is vigorously worshipped every Diwali day for hefty boons. Yet India’s women own barely 2% of national assets, and even less have bank accounts.
As we write, one prominent godman, name of Asaram, who has legions of followers, among them, significantly, legions of women, the sort who routinely inhabit India’s soap operas — comfortably placed, resplendently adorned, and steeped in forms of ritual and superstition handed down by patriarchy -- has pronounced that the young lady whose recent brutal rape and subsequent death are now in the eye of the storm may, after all, have been to blame for her fate. Had she but taken diksha (religious initiation bestowed by a “guru”) she might have been able to mutter a mantra in her predicament that would have obviated her fatal encounter. Imagine the loads of unnecessary work this would spare the overburdened law enforcement agencies and the legal system were the advice to be adopted as national policy. Indeed, he has gone on to say that had she but held one of the attackers by the wrist and called him brother, and appealed to other “brothers” to come to her rescue, being an abla (weak and eligible for male protection, as per traditional construction of women), maybe fallen at their feet, none of what happened might have happened. And, if you have been listening, his fiercest defence has been coming from one of his articulate women devotees.
This has come quickly upon the heals of yet another discourse, this time on the nature of marriage by the same Shri Bhagwat of the RSS: marriage, he opines, is a “contract” wherein the wife agrees to keep the husband pleased, and the husband in turn agrees to keep the wife secure and fed. After such knowledge, what forgiveness.
Gloriously, however, there is a new turbulence underway in post-independence India, where what remnants of Bharat there remain — and these are still countless — are sought to be everyday uplifted to a future of reason, dignity, equality; a turbulence which most hearteningly is now being owned and endorsed by a new generation of young males who have seen through the untenable and oppressive formulations of old. Gloriously also, some women who have been objects of gang rapes are today boldly and openly articulate on some media channels, speaking of their ordeals in their own voices, and, most significantly, refusing to project themselves merely as victims overburdened by the sort of shame and opprobrium that patriarchs would like them to feel. This truly betokens a new episteme in India’s social and gender history, one that seems here to stay. All that in the teeth of rightwing back-to-the-wall resistance from both major communities in India who stand more and more exposed as each day passes.
Which is also the reason why the suggestion made by Shashi Tharoor must be zestfully endorsed, namely, that since it is the perpetrators who ought to feel the shame and not the victim, the deceased young woman who has been the catalyst of the current historic epistemic shift must be honoured by being named, and by having the new laws under contemplation named after her. Indeed, if jurisprudence as at present disallows such a departure in the naming of laws, then amendments may be made. One presses this point in the conviction that such symbolic determinations on behalf of nation-states can often have far-reaching consequence in reshaping inherited habits of thought.
Keywords: Delhi gang rape, RSS, Mohan Bhagwat, patriarchy, Hinduism,




I strongly rebut the reference made to Shri Bhagwatji's speech about reference to marriage as "contract." I heard the entire speech in youtube and he does not mention like that in any part. You can also see the complete video in the youtube.
Please go through the entire text before making your own interpretations. Do not try to influence the viewers with wrong versions. I have been studying The Hindu newspaper since my childhood, but of late I have stopped reading it because of its negative thoughts towards Hindu society and Hindu organizations. It is a "new insight" the author has on Ramayanam and Mahabaratham contrary to the teachings we were given as a child. I think he got that thought from his own. I think he would not have read both epics in full.
I liked your post. This voice should reach out to every INDIAN and every BHARATIYA.
"Well Done is better than well said".
Therefore, its our time to ACT and "Walk our talk".
Well said. Bravo! To me the real issue is the need to change our
outlook and thinking towards women. Such a change, be it in "India" or
"Bharat" will be hard. The key to the change will be for women leaders
to lead it - be it the much maligned, Sonia Gandhi or Sushma Swaraj or
Kiran Bedi or women in business (Naina Lal Kidwai, Head HSBC or Swati
Piramal, Head Piramal Healthcare etc.) or women artists (Bharti Kher,
Nalini Malani etc.) or popular women artists (Katrina Kaif, Kareen
Kapoor etc.). These women leaders need to step forward and make this a
personal battle to inspire a nation. Good things don't come to you -
you have to go get them. The last is probably true both for "India"
and "Bharat".
Mr. Badri
While I agree with most of the points in your blog, there are some inaccuracies. For instance, you've quoted Shurpnakha. Please understand that she was a demon & had attacked Sita. Lakshman, by cutting her nose, had only punished her and this was perfectly fair since he was doing his duty, namely, of protecting his brother & sister-in-law. I suggest that you re-read this portion of the Ramayan & make suitable edits in your article.
Not to take too much away from the accuracy of your article, but this - "marriage, he opines, is a contract wherein the wife agrees to keep the husband pleased, and the husband in turn agrees to keep the wife secure and fed" - strikes me as a false assertion.
I'm pretty sure what Bhagwat said was that it is the "Western" world that classifies marriage as such. Apparently, he claimed Hindu marriage (admittedly, despite historical evidence to the contrary) is much more egalitarian.
Also, I'm pretty sure Shurpanakha's nose was cut off when she tried to attack Sita... unless my grandmother's version of the Ramayana was entirely distorted. And is the whole Draupadi episode really glorified in the Mahabharata? I'm pretty sure it's vilified... unlike Greek tragedies where the forcing of gods upon women is glorified. Perhaps Ahalya would have served as a better example?
So, ultimately, this is a great article - unfortunately, certain misleading statements detract from its greatness.
Very nice article, loved reading it! Wish it reaches all Indian men.
Kudos to The Hindu.
Well thought provoking article. we Indians are expert in blame game.It
is high time we change our attitude for the progress of our
society.'subjugation and exploitation of women is a product of man's
vested teaching and women's acceptance of them'said Gandhiji. Let every
women think about it.
The article ironically adds more to the senseless discourse we have been through rather than puting an end to it. Painting a picture that we as Bharatwasi are more guilty for the rape crimes and the western values as a panacea for equality, freedom and justice is unfortunately a sordid and shortsighted attempt in enforcing ones prejudiced personal opinion upon others. Women have been raped even in more brutal ways in Western countries and children have been abused and murdered alike. Not to forget the idea of Western imperialism and racism which altogether claimed lives of millions in world wars and various conflicts. Why can't we as human beings and not as Indians, Americans, Europeans etc think and express ourselves more maturely and rationaly in times of extremely distressing incidents. We need to understand that the accused in Delhi rape or the shooter of Newtown, US or the be-headers of Indian soldier are explicit forms of animals we harbour inside ourselves.
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