Tenzin Priyadarshi Rinpoche on Buddhism, happiness and living in moderation

When someone utters the word Monk, we usually imagine an ascetic meditating in Himalayas. Tenzin Priyadarshi is an alumnus of Harvard, shares a passion for photography and sports a goatee!

Tenzin Priyadarshi is in town to give lecture on ‘The art of Happiness’ followed by a day-long meditative retreat. Put up in a suite on the sixth floor of Daspalla Hotel in the city, he sits as if he truly is in the Himalayas. A general air of quietude welcomes you in. He takes time off from contemplation to answer questions on Buddhism, belief, ritual and the pursuit of happiness.

He is the founding director of The Dalai Lama Centre for Ethics and Transformative values at Massachusetts Institute of Technology. But it has been a long and introspective journey for Priyadarshi so far. Born in Bihar, he lived and studied in Kolkata; by the time he turned 10, Priyadarshi recalls having visions of monks and Buddhist temples. So he instinctively ran away from home, found a monastery and decided to become a monk.

An irrational decision taken as a child, did he ever regret it? “Callings are never rational. I never went back on this decision because it wasn’t an attraction that would fade over time. This is what I am meant to be,” he says with an unflappable countenance. Monks maintain a calm composure, one that often belies their emotion, or perhaps they are meant to maintain neutrality. “The basic belief is that one must experience everything in moderation; Buddhism is all about the middle path,” he smiles. Priyadarshi struck a deal with his parents who are bureaucrats that he would undertake both secular education and monastic studies. Priyadarshi went on to study at Syracuse and then to Harvard where he completed a graduate degree in Comparative Philosophy of Religion. Next week, Priyadarshi is receiving an award for being a distinguished alumnus of the college. Priyadarshi has an idea about happiness. “It is about creating a mind space where you can inculcate a serene sense of happiness,” he says. The logical and analytical nature of Buddhism is what appealed to Priyadarshi’s sense of spirituality. “There is no blind faith here, Buddhism is about improving constantly, so in that sense, everybody is a Buddhist,” he says.