• If your friend shows disinterest in life, appears restless, complains of low appetite and sleep, focusses on fears, and dwells a great deal on problems and how they are not possible to resolve, how do you react? Dr Vijayakumar says it is natural between friends to brush it off, but it is better to ask some straight questions. “It is a myth that when you ask directly, you reinforce suicidal thoughts,” she says and adds, “It is better to show your empathy and concern instead.” If timely intervention comes by, the vulnerable feeling of unworthiness and a death wish can be conquered with help. Offer to go with them to a psychiatrist or an RCI-registered counsellor.