As I start writing this column, I first grapple with the blank moments of a white, empty, page. I have no subject to write about. I struggle for a few minutes. Especially given that this is my first column of the New Year, I am certain I have to write something meaningful. Then, slowly, the words come, following the idea. Maybe because I’m focused on my goal, the page finally fills up.
So, can I deem this effort successful? Or do I call it significant? What is the difference between success and significance?
We all go through life, pursuing success. We set goals and work towards them. When we achieve them, we say we are successful. Our family and friends call us successful. Quite often, the world ‘measures’ our success using material indicators. Does she own a home? Tick. Does she own a car? Tick. Does she own a luxury car? Double tick. Does she own a lot of jewellery? The list goes on. While some of these material indicators may be necessary, they may not always make us happy. Then, the question becomes what makes us happy.
It could be argued that while accomplishing our goals makes us successful, when those goals have an impact on others, or when they are driven by a purpose higher than ourselves, that success can make us happy. Because it is no longer just success, it is beyond that. It is significance.
So, goals and purpose are not exactly the same. If, say, your goal is to start a company of your own, and you do accomplish it, you’re successful. But if your purpose is to start that company so that you can bring affordable healthcare to all, then, you’re significant.
Mark of significance
This journey from success to significance can take some time and is not to be rushed. Like many milestones in our life, this may take some years. However, it is important to realise the difference between success and significance and seek the reasons that drive your goals. The key is to keep asking, ‘why’ when we pursue certain goals and if we are keen on going beyond success, then we may have to let go of those which do not seem to help others or do not have any impact on the community around us.
We are increasingly moving towards a future when technology will be all-pervasive, omnipotent and, perhaps, even omniscient. A purposeful-life that is of use to others becomes all the more relevant in such times.
So, if you have not yet set goals for this year, now is the time to do it. And as you do, ask yourselves what purpose drives each of those. And then see if they are likely to have a positive impact on those around you. If your answer satisfies you, you are on your way to significance. Be prepared for your growth. Get into the purposeful mind-set and let that purpose take you forward.
While I conclude this piece, I sincerely hope it has made at least one of you think. I hope it helps at least one of my readers. If I have, I am on my way beyond success. Happy 2019 to all.
The author is a writer and literary journalist. She also heads Corporate Communications at UST Global. Twitter: @anupamaraju
