Every one of us faces a constant issue: how to make the most of life. There is no easy answer. No tried and tested formula of solutions and explanations because everyone’s situation in life is unique and each of us is a package of very complex intuitions, reflexes and responses. The art of living is the most difficult of all the arts. And the art of ethical living an even more refined play in life. Many things that make perfect sense in our get-up-and-grab-it environment will not suit the person who runs along ethical lines knowing that lasting satisfaction and achievement can come only by that route.
How shall we keep those batteries charged?
Timeless teachings
I came across a word last month — insourcing. We have all heard of outsourcing responsibilities and work. What about the reverse? And the idea of strengthening oneself? Though it is true that luck plays a role in life, we can try to direct our lives by not only thinking strongly enough about what we know we can do, and need to do, but by also acting on it. There may be many obstacles and walls but the point is to think carefully and repeatedly about how to drill through or jump over them. Find the sources for quiet determination and perseverance within yourself. When you are faced with reversals or disappointments, insource for strength of mind.
What is stopping you? Is it a person? Is it lack of money? Lack of time perhaps? A qualification? Most things can be managed if you assess your situation and skills realistically. No use thinking you want to play Wimbledon if you have never hit the tennis court, right? So remember that meditating on your situation in life is not the same as day-dreaming. You have to take steps to be what you want to become.
I thought I could share some metaphors that might help my readers. Both are from timeless teachings. The first is “learn to be like a rock” when people say things about you and against you. But when you speak, let your words be no more painful than the touch of a falling flower. Another two images, both more detailed than the first two. The first is — learn to live like the tongue. Consider how the tongue manages its work hemmed in on all sides by sharp heavy teeth, accomplishing its work unobtrusively: tasting, speaking, conveying chewed food down the throat and so on. The other image is much grander and comes couched in both an appeal and a strong suggestion. Consider the lion! What are the four features of the lion that we might draw inspiration from? The lion knows no fear. Though he is alone the lion never feels lonely. He never feels trapped. He never feels weak and helpless. So, raise your head, and look no further than yourself.
Insource!
The writer is Series Editor, Living in Harmony, (Oxford University Press). minioup@gmail.com
