I feel my 12-year-old is facing stress in school, as he seems low when he returns, but I’m not sure what. Is it better to talk to him first or speak to the teacher?
We are shifting cities, and my daughter is in Class XI. She is very unhappy about moving, and expresses this with non-cooperation in most things, like packing and helping around the house. How do I deal with the situation?
Adolescence is a time when peer interaction, deriving a sense of belonging through cliques and developing a unique identity away from family, are essential. Shifting cities naturally challenges all these areas and is very stressful for the adolescent brain that already struggles with emotional regulation. Please take time to connect with your daughter and listen to her concerns without rushing to belittle or fix them with “adult wisdom”. It will be beneficial to use professional help if you feel you will not be patient enough to support her through this transition.
Nothing in this column is intended to be, and is not, a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please seek independent advice from a licensed practitioner if you have any questions regarding a medical condition. Email us your questions at mp_health@thehindu.co.in
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