By the grim standards of the dystopia India’s children inhabit, S.P.S. Rathore’s crime was utterly ordinary.
In December last, Indians watched in outrage as S.P.S. Rathore, former Haryana Director-General of Police, smirked at the end of court proceedings which saw him receive a six-month prison sentence for sexually abusing a teenager 19 years ago.
Not far from the Chandigarh courtroom where Rathore was convicted, a panchayat in Rohtak gathered to discuss the fate of a seven-year-old girl who had been sexually abused by a retired schoolteacher. The panchayat ordered that the hair of the perpetrator, Sushil Kumar, be shaved off — but asked the victim’s family not to inform the police. It was only three weeks later, after Kumar’s sons threatened the family, that the matter was reported to the police. The child’s story was buried in inside pages of local newspapers; the police say evidentiary issues render it unlikely the perpetrator will ever be punished.
Kumar is not the only paedophile who has not received national attention. Few know the story of a two-year-old raped by a construction contractor in Bangalore, a 10-year-old girl from Valsad raped by her uncle or the Latur teenager raped by three young men in her village and hanged from a jamun tree. Part of the reason Rathore’s appalling crime drew attention was that it fitted neatly with tropes of villainy familiar from pop-culture: among them, uniformed criminals immune from the law and powerful politicians who guarantee them impunity.
But the truth India has shied away from these past weeks is this: Rathore’s crime was, by the standards of our society, utterly ordinary. For the most part, India’s children live in a nightmare; a dystopia founded on our collective complicity and silence. By the Government of India’s account, more than two-thirds of Indian children experience beatings in their homes, schools, workplace and government institutions — beatings which, if conducted in prison cells, would count as torture. Every second child in India, the government says, also faces one or more forms of sexual abuse.
Yet, no government has found the time or energy to enact a law against the abuse of children — leaving the authorities, when they can bestir themselves to deliver justice, to respond using legalisation intended to prevent prostitution, beggary, trafficking and rape. There is no institutional machinery to investigate schools, homes and children’s workplace for sexual and physical abuse. There are no police officers trained in the special skills needed to deal with child abuse. Barring a handful of organisations and individuals working to address the needs of abused children, there is no resource which victims and their families can turn to for help.
Terrifying facts
In 2007, the Union Ministry of Women and Child Development released the thoughtful —and terrifying — Study on Child Abuse in India. More than 12,000 children were polled to arrive at an empirical picture of the scale of beatings and sexual crimes that Indian children endure. Fifty-three per cent of the children said they had encountered “one or more forms of sexual abuse;” 68.99 per cent said they had suffered physical abuse, including beatings. More than a fifth reported severe sexual abuse, including assault, having been compelled to fondle adults’ private parts, exhibit themselves or be photographed nude. Well over half of those reporting severe sexual abuse were boys, the study found.
Popular wisdom holds that sexual abuse takes place when children are in environments outside the supposedly safe confines of their homes and schools. That, the study found, was simply not true. Fifty-three per cent of children not going to school said they had been sexually abused in their family environment. Just under half said they had encountered sexual abuse at their schools. These figures, interestingly, were about the same as children in institutional care who said they had been sexually abused — 47.08 per cent. Most vulnerable were children in workplaces, 61.31 per cent of whom had been sexually abused.
Boys in all but four of 13 States — Gujarat, Madhya Pradesh, Maharashtra and Goa — were found to be more at risk of sexual abuse than girls. In Delhi, a staggering 65.6 per cent of the boys reported that they had been sexually abused.
Most at risk of serious sexual abuse, the study found, were children between 11 and 18 — although the group between six and 10 also reported significant levels of assault. Analysed by age group, the study states, sexual abuse was reported by “63.64 per cent child respondents in the age group of 15-18 years, 52.43 per cent in the age group of 13-14 years and 42.06 per cent in the age group of 5-12 years.” Assam, Delhi and Andhra Pradesh were found to have the highest levels of sexual abuse, with Uttar Pradesh, Gujarat and Goa recording the lowest.
We know, from separate studies, that the use of children in prostitution is also widespread. In their 2005 study, Trafficking in Women and Children in India, S. Sen and P.M. Nair estimated that there are up to half-a-million girl children from across the South Asian region working as prostitutes in India.
Elsewhere in the world, the existence of well-functioning justice mechanisms — and an open public debate on child sexual abuse — seems to have helped contain the problem to at least some extent. In the United Kingdom, a 2000 study by the National Study for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children found that about 16 per cent of children experienced sexual abuse before the age of 16. In the United States, one in four girls and one in six boys reported similar experiences. Horrific as these figures are, they are still well below the levels the Government of India’s study suggests are prevalent in our country.
Victims of violence
Depressingly, sexual abuse is only part of a wider gamut of violence. Sixty-nine per cent of the children polled reported having been physically abused — a term the authors of the Study defined as behaviour manifesting itself in kicking, slapping or corporal punishment at homes, schools, institutions and workplaces. In all the 13 States covered by the study, the incidence of physical abuse directed at children was above 50 per cent — a sign of just how widespread and legitimate the use of force is considered across the country. More than 80 per cent of children in Assam, Mizoram, Delhi and Uttar Pradesh reported physical abuse.
Most of the victims of physical abuse, the Study found, were very young children. Forty-eight per cent of the respondents who reported physical abuse were between five and 12 years old, while 26.29 per cent were 13 or 14. Older children, aged between 15 and 18, seemed to be targeted less for violence; just over a quarter reported encountering abuse. Boys reported encountering violence more often than girls in all States except Gujarat and Kerala. “In all age groups, an overwhelming majority of children (65.01%) reported being beaten at school, which means that two out of three children are victims of corporal punishment.”
The findings of the Study, its authors noted, were broadly corroborated by several other independent studies. Maulana Azad Medical College researcher Deepti Pagare found that over three-fourths of children in Delhi’s Child Observation Home had reported being subjected to physical abuse. Signs of abuse were found on the bodies of about half the children studied by Dr. Pagare. Fathers made up over half the reported perpetrators, and Dr. Pagare found a significant association between physical abuse of children and domestic violence in homes as well as substance abuse. Save the Children and Tulir, in a 2006 study conducted in West Bengal, found that almost three-quarters of child domestic workers had been physically abused. In 41.5 per cent of cases, the perpetrator was a member of the employers’ family.
What needs to be done? For one, India’s criminal justice system simply doesn’t have either the legal instruments or police infrastructure to deal with crimes against children. Despite calls from campaigners and child-rights groups, India is yet to pass a specific law on child sexual abuse — a legislative failure that makes prosecution in many situations almost impossible. Early this year, Punjab and Haryana High Court judges Mukul Mudgal and Jasbir Singh announced that they intended considering guidelines for the prosecution of child abuse cases. However, thoroughgoing criminal justice reforms will be needed for such efforts to yield results. Just 0.034 per cent of the Plan expenditure in 2006-2007 — an appalling figure — was committed to child protection.
In 1974, the National Policy for Children declared children a “supreme national asset.” No country in which two-thirds of children report beatings, and half experience sexual abuse, can make that claim with honesty. We must rip away the shrouds of silence that conceal the sheer pervasiveness of child abuse in our society. Our silence and inaction against the paedophiles in our homes, schools and neighbourhoods make us complicit in the horrific crimes being perpetrated against our children.
Keywords: Rathore, rape case, child abuse




Such kinds of activities should not occur and serious action should be taken against culprits.
Implement something like CBR check before recruiting teachers or police personals. And create mass awareness among school children and parents. It won't be easy but something must be done to prevent the child from being exploited again and again in near future.
An eye opening article..This shows that Governnment needs to take immediate steps. In addition, it needs to keep a check on whether the existing policies and steps are implemented. Moreover, the person found as accused must be sentenced to life imprisonment or death sentence and proper steps must be taken to keep the victim's family safe. A special judiciary needs to be set up to handle such issues. Moreover, public awareness campaigns need to be lauched to encourage people to ask for justice and help them fight against child abuse.
I would search for an option where the message reaches the children without disturbing them. There are organisations to create awareness towards child rights, and among the victims, but I doubt if there are any measures taken for prevention. Primarily the parents should know how to answer their kid's queries related to these topics with sensitivity, which can be the starting point.
Appalling as it may sound, most often, it is someone that the child trusts who abuses them (sexually or otherwise) -Parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, tutors, school teachers, friends etc. Children are taught to believe that actions of adults are justified by their rationality. If children are beaten or abused by trusted adults, to whom would they complain and will they be taken seriously? The child often has no true realisation of being abused and the implications, until they gain mental maturity.
The official figures are appalling and dismal. How can we call ourselves a great country, with huge child abuse, and that too corroborated by the official figures. And it is more worrying that the judiciary and the legislature haven't yet reacted sharply to this. Pathetic is our system.
As far as the question of children's physical abuse goes, it's a part of our Indian family tradition from a long time. That's the way children are supposed to be learning the ways to live. As a result of this even the school teachers have a tacit acceptance from the parents in perpetrating physical abuse of young children for small mistakes. Thus only justice system and laws will be unable to check these crimes inflicted on our tender hearts. A widespread awareness needs to be carried out just the way other evil practices like dowry system have been discouraged. Films and TV might play a big role apart from other media.
Parents need to know what to say, and not say, and also whom to turn to themselves for support and advice, if their child reports being sexually abused. Parents should also learn to tell the signs, and also LISTEN to their kids. It's about protecting the child's future, preventing further abuse, and most of all, making sure you don't blame the child for the abuse in anyway. SO much for parents to learn here, and also learn to empower your child to protect himself or herself. Most child abuse is perpetrated not by a stranger, but someone within the family or friend circle.
I should really appreciate this article.As mentioned it is must to make the law more severe against this child abuse. I just wanted to say a thing, there are lots of people who are ready to fight for the rights for children who are tortured like this but most of them dont know the way.It will be good if there is a proper plan to help them. Especially students should come forward and initiate the process of eradicating the problem.This article is a real eye opener.
We need to raise public awareness about these crimes. We need to make a change at the ground level on attitudes to these crimes -- don't blame the victim. Establish special victims units within police forces where only specially qualified people can be employed. Actually have university degrees in Child Psychology, make it essential for people to have these degrees before they can be employed in this position. Come up with a strategy to periodically monitor this unit. Train police force in general to be more "humane" in the broadest sense of the word. Above all, make sure there are checks and balances that ensure that all these units actually work fine.
Interesting, but what's so strange and appalling. Read any paper whether, a developed or developing or under developed nation. It's the same. This is what humans are. We keep on breeding like rabbits, that the world is becoming a small place. Every other living thing is this world is becoming extinct except for bugs, so really bugs and humans have more in common than other animals. We destroy things for our pleasure, which even bugs don't.
I would like to support the author's suggestion -legal instruments to deal with crimes against the children. It is too late but the necessary steps should be taken and the immediate steps should be towards extensive awareness by govt of India through media.
Nice article. I think indians are still in the first stages of accepting the reality of our society, the denial mode. It has to pass through anger, depression and acceptance.
There is a long way ahead.
Children are more vulnerable and frail, which make them easy target by the sex abusers. In schools as well, children are prone to attack using corporal punishment. It is not possible for a child to be alert to such threats. By creating awareness among parents in order to monitor changes in their child's behaviour is the one of the methods to alleviate this problem.
Preponderance of the crime may make Rathore’s despicable act rather ‘ordinary’ but it should not be interpreted as acceptable and forgivable. Appalling as it may sound, most often, it is someone that the child trusted that abuses them (sexually or otherwise). Children are taught to believe that actions of adults are justified by their rationality. If children are beaten or abused by trusted adults, to whom would they complain and will they be taken seriously? The child often has no true realization of being abused and the implications, until they gain mental maturity. Perhaps, lack of awareness and open communication within the family (especially, with regard to sexual abuse), fear of being stigmatized and not being trusted dissuades young victims from speaking up. Affected families are shameful of the incident; rarely embrace the victim and chose reticence instead of fighting for justice, giving scope for the perpetrator to continue the onslaught on other children. It is not enough to have awareness programs, rules and regulations in place and hold government responsible; an issue like child abuse can only be tackled if ‘we’ as a family and society come together and 1) accept that it can happen to ‘our’ children, 2) take responsibility to condemn and report and 3) offer support to the victim. I sincerely commend ‘THE HINDU’ for publishing their opinion and invoking thought in their readers. It has been two years since Union Ministry of Women and Child Development has released their shocking report on child abuse; I wonder how many of us who read that report have done anything within the realm; have we at least discussed the issue with our family members? Have we advised our children on dos and don’ts? Perhaps, we just sympathised with the unfortunate ‘other’s’ children. Is it possible that ‘our’ children or their friends have encountered such a situation and the reports are all about ‘us’? We may be shocked!
I guess the more we look at the process of socialisation and the institutionalization of the inherent tendencies to treat these as ordinary things is absolutely disgusting. Even today, in cities you go and ask people about Child Rights, and the first question that comes back, children? of what age?
There is no way this article is true. You have painted a utterly dismal picture for children of India. I would like to know what sort of questions were asked..a pat on the back is also considered physical abuse! and as for sexual abuse..god knows what questions were asked..Children are very shy..and I wonder were they able to answer the questions truthfully..Indian uupbringing is much better than the western upbringing.
We as a people are traditionally conservative and tend to keep quiet in the face of injustice, even that against ourselves. I am shocked and appalled at the sheer numbers involved in sexual abuse.
However, I would hope that a slap on the cheek is not considered "physical abuse". Let us not allow political correctness to run riot. There need to be clear guidelines about what is acceptable and what is not. Sexual abuse in any form is NOT!
A heartrending piece. I am glad that these issues are becoming the basis of public debate in India and impressed that there are resources being allocated for statistical research on this.
Having empirical records on this is the first step on emphasizing the enormity of the problem.
Thank you for this and for speaking out for these children who are denied a voice in so many ways!
Rafia Zakaria
Amnesty International USA
The sexual abuse numbers appear too high. Every second child? Really? How was the survey conducted? What was the population in which it was conducted? I'm talking to a dozen or so of my friends and they all find these numbers incredulous. A 50% chance that any kid has been sexually abused should make them recall someone they know that got abused, shouldn't it? Not trying to push away the problem, but I want to find how believable these numbers are. Can you please cite the "Government of India" study? Any links to where the actual study is published?
I am simply appalled at the facts and figures reported from government sources by the author. The earlier corrective measures are taken the better it will be. Can we call ourselves civilizes? I hold my head in shame, as I am a part of it.
The article is superb.Not only the Government, the private sector organisations, NGOs, Social warfare organisations can also play an important role to prevent crimes against children.
And the figures cited are from the government. Actual figures would actually be much higher. Despicable and appalling.
Child abuse has been going on for years all over the developing countries and in developed countries as well. How would you go about overcoming this issue? Several possibilities come to mind, such as family planning, free primary education, etc. I just want to say that it is a disturbing situation but just by blaming the Govt. will not help alleviate it.
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