A funeral manager who laid orthodoxy to rest

40-year-old Jayanthi took the job of burning bodies at Namakkal electric crematorium

August 16, 2016 12:59 am | Updated October 18, 2016 02:38 pm IST - CHENNAI:

Her workplace is one that women do not normally even visit: a crematorium.

But Jayanthi, of Senthamangalam in Namakkal district, is comfortable managing the town’s crematorium, ignoring invisible barriers of orthodoxy.

The 40-year old has been working as an operator in the electric crematorium since 2013, burning corpses in the face of resistance from some sections.

On Monday, Ms. Jayanthi received the Kalpana Chawla Award for Courage and Daring Enterprise from Chief Minister Jayalalithaa, at the Independence Day celebrations. It was a particularly poignant moment because her mother, who was overjoyed to hear about the award to be conferred on her, died last week. Her father’s death in 2003 brought the first realisation that she had to depend on others for rituals.

Only for men

“We were all sisters, and we had to plead with our male cousins to help us observe certain rituals after my father’s death. I then realised the need to be independent,” she says.

She was working in an orphanage when she found an opening in the crematorium in Namakkal to maintain the campus.

“I thought, why shouldn’t I take that up? It’s the work that matters. I didn’t mind people talking behind my back. I’m happy people now look up to me as an inspiration.”

The mother of twin daughters is happy that her husband is with her on the decision.

“I’m a Brahmin and married a Gounder. Our wedding faced so much criticism. But my father supported me. Initially, my husband didn’t like the idea, but he too came around,” she says.

“I’m happy that my mother was able to hear the good news about this award before she left us,” she says emotionally.

The award includes a cash prize of Rs. 5 lakh, a gold medal and a certificate. Asked about her role model, she says it is Chief Minister Jayalalithaa. “I have seen how much she has achieved in politics despite adversity,” she says.

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